Best friend made up with someone she hated, now she's forgetting me
Re: Best friend made up with someone she hated, now she's forgetting me
There are probably two feelings you hold towards your best friend : You feel as if they are a hypocrite and have betrayed you in the most awful of ways or you're scared of losing such an important person in your life. If its both, I suggest you stop for a minute and think. Calling someone your best friend means loving them when they are unlovable and having someone close enough to you that you feel comfortable being yourself around them. You'll also want what's best for them. With regard to this, think about how your best friend feels right now and why she did what she did. If you truly want what's best for her, you'll not only respect her decision to rekindle her friendship with this old friend but you'll also make sure she realises that their past history was there for a reason. As to feeling ignored, at some point we all get a tad possessive of our friends without realising. That's okay, its a sign that you care about them. Try to approach her about the subject, perhaps she hasn't even realised that in rekindling her friendship with this person she is neglecting her current friendship with you. Make sure your feelings are heard, its the only way you'll feel better and possibly have things back to normal. Finally, I assure you, any friend who neglects you because of a new friendship being formed is not worth your time. If your friendship with this person is worth the trouble, fight for it. True friends are hard to find and should not be lost over a simple misunderstanding.
Sincerely, The Advice Team
