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I really like this guy but we don't really get to talk very often since he stays with a different gr

Re: I really like this guy but we don't really get to talk very often since he stays with a different group and i only really know one person in his group so it would be weird if i just started staying with his group randomly. What can i do to spend more time with him or have proper conversations with him, rather than just acknowledging each other in the hall?

Face it. You're shy to talk to him yourself? Or aren't you? You don't need to befriend his friends to get to him, all you need to do is say hi and start out with small-talk, like "God, I don't feel like *insert subject or teacher here*". You'll eventually advance from small talk and onto normal friendly banter. It's not easy talking to the one you like in a normal manner, and please, don't get comfortable after a week and sprout out the confession that you like him or whatever. Take your time. No rush. These things are delicate and beautiful if taken slowly. You'll appreciation the time taken to get to know him once sparks start flying. and, if this method doesn't work for you, you can always hang around the person you know until the subject falls on you and you get to introduce yourself. well, if he already knows you, you wouldn't need much of an introduction - don't be awkward around him. just be yourself. Be natural.

Sincerely,

The Advice Team

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